• Trusting no one - trusting anyone - black and white thinking

• Telling all

• Talking at intimate level on first meeting

• Falling in love with a new acquaintance

• Falling in love with anyone who reaches out

• Being overwhelmed by a person - preoccupied

• Acting on first sexual impulse

• Being sexual for partner, not self

• Going against personal values or rights to please others

• Not noticing when someone else displays inappropriate boundaries

• Not noticing when someone invades your boundaries

• Accepting food, gifts, touch, sex that you don't want

• Touching a person without asking

• Taking as much as you can get for the sake of getting

• Giving as much as you can give for the sake of giving

• Allowing someone to take as much as they can from you

• Letting others direct your life

• Letting others describe your reality

• Letting others define you

• Believing others can anticipate your needs

• Expecting others to fill your needs automatically

• Falling apart so someone will take care of you

• Self abuse

• Sexual and physical abuse

• Food abuse

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